How much is too much for Valentine’s?
Valentine’s Day is typically for couples; old and new, showing their love through material goodies. There was once a time where these gifts were fairly simple, a thoughtful card, stuffed bear and a collection of chocolates stored in a heart- shaped box. Oh how times have changed. IPods, expensive clothing and jewelry have claimed their spots as the modern day “V-day” gifts but is it really wise to do so?
Yes, if you’ve been married for the better part of a decade; you’re entitled to give your darling whatever your heart desires. It is a promising relationship, so there is sufficient room for the larger gifts.
College relationships can occasionally have a similar outcome, but it is seldom that you see this happen. Electronics should be out, and a nice dinner is in. Although years do not always determine the depth of the love between two people, realize where you stand and pamper your partner accordingly.
You also have to consider your personal comfort level with gift exchanges. Go after what you would feel at ease with receiving from someone else. In a relationship that is just beginning, unwrapping an outfit priced at $200 would not make most people jump for joy, but more likely jump out the window. A casual conversation of your Valentine’s Days expectations would be ideal.
Trading a large gift can also cause issues that did not occur initially. If you buy your lover a pricey, gold watch and they have decided you’re only worth a Wal-Mart card and a “Much Love” signature; I think it’s safe to say your shopping wasn’t a clever choice on your part. Stereotypical Valentine’s Day gifts work just as well, and as cliché as it may sound: the thought should really be the only thing that matters.
As a wise man once told me, “If you were to break up on the 15th, and you would want your gift back, baby you’ve spent too much.” I’d say that is a reasonable quote to go by.
